We can attempt to child proof our home but our clever toddlers often find ways around or over our barriers. The best way for us to make a room child proof is to do our best and then let them loose and see what they do. We have been surprised to see child safety locks removed and baby gates opened. We have learned that when it comes to getting into things or escaping barriers, Xayden is the leader of the pack.
One day, I was unloading the dishwasher right next to the playroom. The baby gate was in place, so I decided it was safe for me to run to the restroom. When I returned, I found Xayden inside the kitchen smiling up at me with a knife in one hand and kitchen scissors in the other. He had found a way to open the baby gate and he went straight for the open dishwasher. He did not go for the dozen or so spoons or the plastic cups or any other safe items in plain view. No, he found the most dangerous things in the dishwasher and stood there happily holding them. I did not stop to capture this moment on camera as I carefully seized the sharp items from his hands. I now make a point to close the dishwasher and my husband worked on making the gate Xayden proof.
The babies do not watch TV or use the computer so, in theory, they should not know how to operate either of these devices. When we had the babies in the family room, Xayden went straight for the remote and pushed the correct button and turned on the television. On another occasion, he went right up to the TV itself and turned it on. He has also gone into the office and headed straight for the mouse which lights up the screen. We let him go for the television remote on another occasion to see if his first success was a fluke. It wasn’t.
Inside the playroom, we have cabinets with child locks on them. Xayden, who has the shortest legs of the bunch, finds ways to compensate by using anything he can find as a stepping stool. He has stood on just about every toy in an attempt to obtain things outside of his reach. One day, he stood on a little storage tub he had turned over, removed a child lock and opened the cabinet. He giggled as he began to grab the canned food inside. By this time, I was already stopping him. My husband then engineered his own child locks to make the cabinets Xayden proof. We no longer worry about making the house toddler proof. Nothing is safe until it is Xayden proof.
I would love to hear your stories and thoughts. As always, comments are welcome.
Cindy Walker says
I love the story and the photos.
Multiples Mom says
Thank you Cindy!
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Angela says
Oh my gosh! I'm picturing your precious little Xayden with a knife in one hand and scissors in the other!! Kinda made me laugh in a frightened-but-mom-who-has-been-there-too-and-understands way. lol! Baby proofing is definately a little bit of trial and error..at least Xayden's siblings can thank him for keeping them away from knifes. Lol.
Multiples Mom says
Hi Angela.
That is true…the rest of the babies have Xayden to thank for testing everything out first. The baby proofing is trial and error…because the gate and the baby locks were all made to be child safe and my husband had to make new baby locks and revise the baby gate… Have a great week.
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Becca says
Goodness! He sure is a smart (and equally cute) little guy!
Blair @ Baby for Scale says
he sure is an adorable ringleader, though I see mischief in his eyes! hahah. we do the same thing with molly. let her loose in a room to see what happens then baby proof on the go! she is starting to climb and succeeding… lord help us!
Sloppy Copy Mommy says
He's super cute! I understand what you mean–some kids are completely undeterred by child-proofing. He's making you lift your mommy muscles now for the ones coming after. 🙂
Thanks for linking up in the Mischievous Mondays hop. So glad to have found another great blog to stalk!
Theresa says
Hi Blair.
It sounds like Xayden and Molly would find ways to escape boundaries together if they had a play date! Child proofing is an ongoing process for us too.
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Theresa says
Hi Sloppy Copy Mommy.
Yes, Xayden is educating me on how to keep him safe. I am impressed by his problem solving abilities (exasperating and exciting at the same time!)
Joy Christi says
hahaha nice post. My 3 yr old never got into the cabinets or places she wasn't supposed to. now, my 18 month old? those are the ONLY things she wants to play with! She loves to open the dishwasher and sit on the open door!